Honestly everyone is replaceable. If my mom was to die, and my dad remarried I would have a new mom. This lead to hours of discussion and a text group that wouldn't be quiet. They all talked about how their mom was unique and no one could ever take her place. While I see the value the children have for their mom because that is someone who has invested a lot of time into them; the children also know that even their mom's are human and one day will die. When the conversation was going on in class I wanted to say that I agree humans die nothing abnormal about it, not to say I won't miss them. I see how it would be irrational attachment, why that one human? What was so special? What did that person give you that someone else can't?
I just find it so interesting. It is easier to say that everyone will die and come to terms that it's okay, because when the time comes and someone dies, we are not okay.
If you would like to think of it in an epicurean sense sure, but I don't honestly agree with that. A mothers love for her child is unconditional and children, even as little babies feel that. There's nothing like that Unconditional love you get from your mom and from personal I have never loved or felt that type of love from anywhere else. 😊
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